Should We Fear Death? By David Snape
Death is not something that many people want to think about. However, death is a part of living a human life. At least, our current level of science and technology acknowledges that death is inevitable.
Is death something to be afraid of or is death something to look forward to? The answer may depend on who you talk to.
Aside from the obvious religious answers, what body of information exists that can help us to approach this
question with some degree of logical thinking? When exacting scientific evidence is lacking, our only option
is to consider the anecdotal or subjective experiences that others have had.
Fortunately, there is a body of information that leads to the formation of some interesting thoughts on the subject of death and what it is or what it might lead to. You can find this resource at near-death.com.
Each person is encouraged to draw their own conclusions. Yet, I would like to share some of my thoughts and opinions on the matter.
Many people who have a near-death experience have strikingly similar experiences. There are some who
report a horrible experience but the majority report more positive experiences.
Some may have gone to a terrible place, while others seem to leave the pain of the mortal body behind and experience an interesting journey before they revive. Both kinds of experiences have been recorded.
One striking similarity is the 'life review' process. This has been reported as a review of one's entire life where each event is played out before your eyes. People that have experienced this process say that you suddenly become aware of how you affected the people you interacted with during your life.
If you did something that caused them pain, you may become cognizant of those feelings as if you were experiencing them yourself. People report that they feel regretful. The experience doesn't just extend to that one person, but the effects are like a ripple in a pond and you see how that ripple affects multiple people.
On the other hand, if you did something good you experience that as well. It does appear that the good
things involve acting from compassion. For example, one lady said the most significant act of her entire life
occurred when she was a little girl. She cupped a flower in her hand and gave it 'unconditional love'.
Others don't experience an in depth life review, theirs lasts a few seconds and doesn't seem to have much impact. Experiences vary someowhat. However, the fundamental similarities remain.
Can a person change as a result of a near-death experience? I was struck by the example of one person who
was a self described atheist and hateful person. After his near-death experience he became a minister and a kinder, gentler soul. The change was not only noted by himself, but also by his family members.
Wouldn't it be fascinating to actually talk to a person who has had a near-death experience? I remember listening to a gentleman named Dannion Brinkley talk about his NDEs (near death experiences). He actually had more than one in his life due to an unfortunate propensity to attract lightning.
I found his insights to be very interesting.
If you want to read more about NDEs, visit near-death.com Although it is hard to classify the information there as anything more than subjective, there is a large body of recorded experiences there. Perhaps it will provide you with more insight as to whether death should be feared or not.
Dave Snape is a health, fitness and wellness enthusiast. He writes for http://ToBeInformed.com
?expert=David_Snape
Today, the World is a Better Place -
I have never in my life felt so relieved and so inspired by the results of an election as I am by the selection of Barack Obama as the next President of the United States. Today, the world is a better place.
Tags: applying psychology, history, politics, positive psychology
» Other Bookmarking...
An Offense is Not a Defense -
An offense involves fighting hard enough to secure a goal and remove obstacles to that goal. A defense involves expending just enough energy to ward off an attack or prevent injury.
Tags: aggression, applying psychology, bullying, character disturbance, in practice, parenting and children, power, therapy, violence
» Other Bookmarking...
When Passive-Aggression isn?t Very Passive -
Often when someone says that another person is being “passive-aggressive,” they really mean something else. Let’s clarify just what passive-aggression is — and what it isn’t — with the help of a framework for understanding human aggression in general.
Tags: aggression, applying psychology, character disturbance, in practice, personality disorders, relationships, violence
» Other Bookmarking...
Acting Up is Not ?Acting-Out? -
True "acting-out" is an outward manifestation of an emotional conflict that can't be consciously recognized by an individual. Acting-up is NOT acting-out.
Tags: applying psychology, character disturbance, denial, in practice, neurosis, news and research, therapy
» Other Bookmarking...
Understanding Denial as a Defense Mechanism -
For neurotics, behavior such as denial is an unconscious defense mechanism that protects against the experience of unbearable pain. With disordered characters, what we commonly perceive as unconscious defenses (e.g., denial) are more often deliberate tactics of impression-management, manipulation, and responsibility-avoidance.
Tags: applying psychology, bereavement, bullying, character disturbance, denial, in practice, neurosis
» Other Bookmarking...
What is a Character Disorder? -
Personality and character disorders are not the same thing. Our personality defines the stylistic way we tend to interact, while our character is defined by the level of social conscientiousness and virtue in our personality. When personality or character traits present major obstacles to functioning in a healthy way, they might constitute a disorder.
Tags: applying psychology, character disturbance, personality disorders
» Other Bookmarking...
1000 Questions for ?Ask the Psychologist? -
Nineteen months and countless hours later, our Ask the Psychologist service today publishes Dr Carver's reply to the 1000th question answered since the service launched in May 2007.
Tags: applying psychology, bipolar, site news
» Other Bookmarking...
Disturbances of Character -
Almost all the principles of traditional psychology are based upon the attempts of various theorists to explain a phenomenon rare for its time and almost totally unheard of in modern times. Character disturbance — not neurosis — is the pressing psychological reality of our day and simply can't be understood or dealt with using traditional paradigms.
Tags: applying psychology, book, character disturbance, Freud, history, in practice, neurosis, personality disorders, psychiatry, public health
» Other Bookmarking...
Someone in Your Life Probably Has a Personality Disorder -
It might be your spouse, your parent, your co-worker...even your child. Chances are, someone with a significant role in your life has a personality disorder. Dr Carver’s new guide to personality disorders in relationships puts the reality in plain English; more than just a list of diagnostic criteria, this explanation describes what it’s really like and offers tips for victims.
Tags: applying psychology, personality disorders, site news
» Other Bookmarking...
Positive Affirmations for Breakfast? -
The "Motiwake Personal Development Alarm Clock" awakens you with positive affirmations to programme you for the day. Many people use their own "Demotiwake Personal Alarm Clocks" instead. Isn't it a better idea just to drop the programmes and relax?
Tags: anxiety and stress, applying psychology, control, relaxation, self-esteem
» Other Bookmarking...
Submit your comments
Back to the main pagehotel furnishing in Bulga wrote:
Very good site. Thank you:
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.videnov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.videnov.com/
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.mebelividenov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.mebelividenov.com/
optical communication
[URL= http://vtsc.info/ ]optical communication[/URL]
optical communication http://vtsc.info/
hotel furnishing in Bulga wrote:
Very good site. Thank you:
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.videnov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.videnov.com/
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.mebelividenov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.mebelividenov.com/
optical communication
[URL= http://vtsc.info/ ]optical communication[/URL]
optical communication http://vtsc.info/
hotel furnishing in Bulga wrote:
Very good site. Thank you:
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.videnov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.videnov.com/
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.mebelividenov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.mebelividenov.com/
optical communication
[URL= http://vtsc.info/ ]optical communication[/URL]
optical communication http://vtsc.info/
hotel furnishing in Bulga wrote:
Very good site. Thank you:
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.videnov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.videnov.com/
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.mebelividenov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.mebelividenov.com/
optical communication
[URL= http://vtsc.info/ ]optical communication[/URL]
optical communication http://vtsc.info/
hotel furnishing in Bulga wrote:
Very good site. Thank you:
furniture Videnov
[URL= http://www.videnov.com/ ]furniture Videnov[/URL]
furniture Videnov http://www.videnov.com/
furniture Videno